Friends

And how do we deal with our friends? Do you lose friends with a  divorce? Whose side do they take and what if they don’t see what happened as you did and think you are not doing the right thing? Are all your friends mutual so you worry about saying to much in case it ends up going back to your partner? How should you handle that?

I remember watching a good friend of mine going through a divorce and felt very torn when she insisted that I didn’t maintain any friendship with her husband at all.  She wanted me to take her side on it but we had all been friends . And at the end of the day, I wasn’t going to be meeting up with her husband on a  regular basis , I was also married. But what had happened was between them and had nothing to do with me. She never spoke to me again because I caught up with her ex husband once. I could see things from both sides but what should you do and how should you behave. Do you blindside one partner for the sake of the other? Maybe you should? Have any of you been in situations like that? What would you do?